To pursue a friendship or romantic interest or relationship of any kind with Elsa:

State your intentions and invitations clearly.

Provide taxi fare to all dates.

Elsa is not accepting home visits and will not provide an address. (Safety concerns.)

Must be able to express ideas and feelings openly and clearly.

Must be in therapy.

Must have attended anger management.

Must be able to provide and protect and invest; financially, emotionally and physically.

Must be actively working out and maintaining physical well being. Must eat mostly healthy (with occasional treat & luxury).

Do not send photos of any kind. All photos must be asked & approved.

Your friends, and the company you keep, must also exhibit exemplary traits and character. 

Elsa will never be introduced to anyone without it being planned.

No Misogyny, redpill rhetoric or racism.

Beyond this preliminary communication, Elsa will not be teaching you how to properly court a woman or treat a woman.

This is a skill you must cultivate and cherish through your own volition and inspiration.

Elsa will not be providing any emotional labor or tolerating anything other than healthy behavior. 

Elsa will not tolerate excess drinking or unhealthy habits. 

Any passive aggressive behavior or anger is cause for break up.

I will not be talking or explaining any interactions in a rushed way. 

All discussions or correspondence will happen on her timeline. 


All topics regarding her relationships will be discussed with her therapist.


Elsa’s safety, feelings of safety, and comfort will always be of utmost priority. 


This is a base line of treatment.

If you should feel this is “too much” to start out the relationships, you will not be a fit for a longer term nurturing and healthy relationship.


Elsa must protect herself and vetting is of utmost priority.


Upon dating, at the 1 month mark, a background check will be done. You will pay for it.


If you have children you might not be eligible for dating.

Friendships can be considered on a one to one basis.

Should she make an exception, you will need to have a proper role in the child's life, and be up to date with all responsibilities at all times, including child care, child support and all child’s/children’s needs. This will be verified with the child's mother via email, or arrangements must be made for verification.


This is to protect Elsa’s being, home, welfare and mental health. Her peace & care is important and always comes first for her and therefore should for you as well.


You must always be aware of what you are adding to her life. Always sincerely wanting to support, add benefit & joy, and participate in mitigating any potential stress, adding a feeling of safety and beauty, and enhancing her life for the better. 


All relationships or commitments passed the 6 month mark will be assessed, discussed and will move beyond this preliminary treatment, and will be done with both parties. 


Elsa is a blessing and a joy and adds unspeakable value to the lives of those she loves.

Her time, care, nurturing and wisdom is a treasure worth protecting.


If you should want to move forward, please feel free. 

Click here for financial expectations while dating.

Sincerely & Lovingly, 

~Elsa, & Elsa's team